Session Girls - why do they do it ?

It seems like every week a new female enters the session scene. These ladies vary from huge jacked bodybuilders to bikini type models with some muscle on them to MMA fighters. Some of these encounters are strictly non-sexual (although there is always an element of sexuality) such as wrestling, grappling, boxing, feats of strength and posing. Some sessions involve guys getting their asses kicked or being lifted and tossed around like a chew toy.  Others go just a bit further and include various forms of sexual gratification and still others are simply pay for sex. On the extremely bizarre end of things some guys even want some jacked FBB to split their ass in half with a dildo. To each his own no matter how f'n weird I guess.

Why do so many women muscular women get involved in sessions.  Could it be the lack of jobs available for a women who looks like JJ Watt with a wig ? Let's face it, there is little to no money available to the vast majority of FBB's inside the sport. What company would use a huge roided out FBB with a voice as deep as Barry White and the facial smoothness of Grizzly Adams as their spokesperson ???  There is little to no endorsement money (other than from guys who "sponsor" the ladies) and contest prizes are a fraction of what the men's are. Personal training is a career that many are involved with as well but again it might be difficult for the ladies with serious steroid side effects to get a large clientele. This leaves the session world to many as a way to pay the bills. Many of the ladies do quite well while others just get by doing sessions.

When the topic of FBB's engaging in the session world gets bantered about the various message boards there are always a huge range of opinions. Some coin the ladies as prostitutes while others view them as athletes. Both views are probably correct depending on the performer.  Some would never consider having sex with a client while others jump right into bed. Likewise, some of the clients have no desire for sex while others only want that. Some of the ladies openly advertise their services, yet others prefer to remain anonymous and get their session gigs through agencies which honor their desire to remain unknown.     

The range of costs are fairly large in this world.  Some ladies charge upwards of $700/hr while others are in the $300 - $400/hr range. Presumably the better looking and better built ladies can command top dollar as can someone who won or placed high in the few contests that mean anything in the female bodybuilding world. This might seem to be a lot of money - and it is - but when you think about a woman being touched all over by some fat, hairy, smelly slob who only wants to jerk off in front of her, the hourly fees don't seem so bad. It's true that not all men who pay for sessions are like that -- many are good looking with great physiques and hygiene -- but the smelly slobs put those charges in perspective. There is also the dangerous aspect of this.  There are also some very disturbed guys who want to prove their manliness by fighting FOR REAL with one of these ladies. Having a 200+ lb guy locked in a room with a goal of trying to coax a women into fighting them is a frightening thought -- no matter how big the lady might be.

One of the humorous parts of the session world are the stupidity of some of the guys who pay for sessions.  They believe that these ladies REALLY like them (of course there are exceptions) and would want to date them or more.  They see these ladies multiple times, each time hoping for something to happen that most likely never will. The more experienced session girls are great actresses and can get the guys to believe that they are "special"and have the ability to get them coming back for more and more.  This is even true for some of the session girls who get HORRIBLE reviews !!  They keep getting new guys who probably think that they can charm them into providing a great session. The reality is that -- YES -- for that one hour or more you are special but at the end of the day, the vast majority of these men are simply clients and the money they spend is how these ladies pay their bills. 

In conclusion, the answer to the question in the title is simple -- they do it for money.

Why do people hate FBBs ?

Let me start by saying that I find women who work out very attractive.  A women can be big, muscular, sexy and feminine -- that being said -- I do think there is a line that some women cross that takes them from being muscular, sexy and feminine to something less attractive and less feminine.

Take a look at the two ladies below -- both are big and muscular. IMHO one has stunning looks and shape and the other has chosen a different path. Yet our society would probably view both of them negatively. 

FBBs who are huge and jacked get insulted, gawked at and made to feel bad. Yet, a fat/obese female does not get the same amount of ridicule. Take a look at the two pictures below and tell me which one should be the object of ridicule (not that either should)

One of the reasons is that the abuse of drugs taken to achieve these physiques causes some women to take on side effects that make them appear more masculine. Deep voices, protruding jaws and facial as well as body hair are some of the bad ones.

The two brunettes below are both very muscular -- yet one has chosen to abuse drugs to the point where -- being brutally honest -- it would be hard at first glance to say whether one of the two was male or female. 

Whenever something is different -- not the norm as our society defines it -- people will have a comment.  Women with big muscles who begin to take on male characteristics are not the norm and never will be -- likewise a man who takes estrogen -- develops breasts -- wears makeup and lipstick will most certainly be gawked at and ridiculed.

As people we have the choice to look any way we want -- but to think that we won't find ourselves in the cross hairs of criticism when we break away from the norm would be naive. If a women wants to take large amounts of drugs to build a huge physique -- does not mind having a deep voice, facial hair or body hair then that is her choice - but with that choice comes the consequence that they will not be accepted by most. Unfortunately this sometimes creates a situation where the female bodybuilder decides that since they are not accepted at a certain size then getting bigger and bigger and bigger with the resulting side effects doesn't make much of a difference.

It would be interesting to see how these ladies feel about their decisions when they are 60+ years old.